Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.
— Oscar Wilde.
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Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.
— Oscar Wilde.
This is the first post on my new blog. I’m just getting this new blog going, so stay tuned for more. Subscribe below to get notified when I post new updates.
Most people experience a short term episode of sadness, hopelessness or frustration at least once in their lifetime as a normal and human reaction to challenges and extraordinary events. Anxiety by itself belongs to the normal range of human emotions and might be a mere expression of “the blues”. However, some have to cope with this mental burden even for several years. They worry and fear constantly causing such overwhelming distress that it interferes with the person’s ability to lead a normal life. This is referred to as anxiety disorder, which is a serious mental illness of the brain.
According to the National Institute of Mental Health anxiety disorders are the most common mental illnesses in the U.S. affecting 18% of the population, whereof women are twice as likely to develop it as men. Anxiety disorders are often accompanied by depressions. “Very often, we find that people have more than one condition — both depression and anxiety disorder” says Charles Goodstein, MD a professor of psychiatry at New York University School of Medicine. In a NIMH funded study researchers proved that more than 40 percent of people suffering from a specific form of anxiety disorder also developed a depression.
You are definitively not alone. Around 5% of the worldwide population are affected by anxiety and depression — a disease that can be easily and successfully cured. Balance Health can accompany you on your way to ease the mental pain and restore your energy and joy of life.
What Causes Anxiety and Depression?
○ The post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) stems from a terrifying event, violent assault, military combat, accident or a natural disaster
○ Often triggered by life events such as financial, relationship, and family problems
○ In general, the exact cause for anxiety disorder is largely unknown. But it is not the result of poor upbringing or personal weakness
○ Mostly caused by a combination of factors including changes in the brain and environmental stress
How Does Balance Health Solve these Mental Problems?
Conventional medicine usually prescribes a combination of psychotherapy and antidepressants to treat anxiety disorders or depressions. In 2010 antidepressants were the second most commonly prescribed medications in the U.S. However, in most cases it only suppresses the symptoms and can turn into a dangerous toxic medication when used in the wrong place.
Balance Health offers integrated treatments that are geared to each other and will be customized for your individual health condition and your personal needs. Benefit from:
○ a holistic and integrated therapy plan to balance your body, mind & spirit
○ an immediate revitalization of your energy levels
○ improved sleep
○ the non-toxic nature of our treatments
Homeopathy & Coaching
The majority of people think that mental illnesses, like anxiety or depression, only derive from the mind. Thereupon, a lot of patients are scared of going mad. But the truth is, that there is no rational explanation for your symptoms! So you shouldn’t feel guilty just because you cannot switch it off. Our certified homeopath and counseling mentor Martin Mailaender will help you to overcome the mental burden in addressing the whole person: the physical, the mental and the emotional. His unique style of counseling and coaching enables you to change the negative way of thinking and to beat the blues. Homeopathic remedies support this process in triggering the body’s self-healing abilities. Homeopathy not only restores the balance of body, mind and emotions, but also heals the underlying mental or emotional toll you might be suffering from.
The benefits of this holistic approach result in the elimination of the root cause problem and restore naturally your balance without side effects.
For more details, Please visit — https://www.balancehealth.com.hk/anxiety-depression-emotional-support/
The origin of your body constitution is determined on the basis of Chinese Medicine which suggests the existence of a natural balance within our body. We are healthy when we live in harmony and In Balance with Nature.
The origin of your body constitution is determined on the basis of Chinese Medicine which suggests the existence of a natural balance within our body. We are healthy when we live in harmony and In Balance with Nature.
Many of the treatment concepts are often easily understood and might even be considered common knowledge. We all know that habits like smoking, a lack of exercise or being overweight are detrimental to our health hence one would expect the avoidance of such habits to be part of every treatment plan.
Herbal therapy refers to the use of herbs to restore and maintain the balance in our human body. In today’s Chinese Medicine probably around 1,000 herbs are commonly used in various forms.
Due to their convenience teas and tinctures are most common. A prescription from a doctor typically comes in the form of dried herbs that are ground into fine powder that can then be cooked up in a tea, consumed as a pill or be put directly on the skin.


Diet or Food therapy refers to the use of food to restore and maintain the balance in our human body. It’s a very powerful method that forms the basis of most comprehensive treatments in Chinese Medicine. Find some easy to make Chinese medicine recipes to cook at home.
Depending on the ailment or imbalance, the Body Constitution, the season of climate and other relevant factors, a Chinese Doctor will suggest consuming certain foods while avoiding others. Find out your body type to know what foods to eat and which ones to avoid.
Acupuncture, has been used as a part of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) for many years, and is especially effective for the relief of acute or chronic pain and prevention or treatment of various diseases. It involves the painless insertion of ultra-thin single use needles into specific points on the body called acupoints, to “re-balance” the flow of the body’s energy. Your body’s energy, commonly known as ‘Chi’, should flow freely and unobstructed. If there are blockages in this flow, illness may arise and by re-establishing good energy flow, the body can begin to heal itself and restore health.
The treatment principle for Tui Na is very similar to Acupuncture. However instead of stimulating the body through the insertion of needles or Moxibustion, Tui Na aims to stimulate the body through the hands of the therapist.
Qi Gong is a form of exercise which aligns the breathing, the mental awareness and movement. It is now practiced throughout China and worldwide. For some it is pure exercise, whereas for others it’s more a meditative practice that also helps the mental state of mind. Qigong can be categorized into Soft Qigong such as Taiji, and Hard Qigong with comprises most Wu Shu styles such as Kung Fu.
We also offer remote consultations for customers outside of Hong Kong. Please follow these steps for remote consultations:
1. Book Appointment
Book an appointment through phone (+852 2530 3315) or email (appt@balancehealth.com.hk).
Please provide the following information:
– Full Name
– Phone number & email
– Skype Name
– Available date and time
2. Payment
Balance Health will send through a payment request of 500HKD for the consultation fee to our bank account:
Beneficiary Bank: The Hongkong and Shanghai Banking Corporation Ltd
Beneficiary Bank Account Number: 502-418254-838
Beneficiary Name: Balance Health Limited
3. Online Diagnosis Form
We will send through a Diagnosis Form and the practitioner’s skype contact. Please fill complete the form and send to appt@balancehealth.com.hk at least 1-2 days before your consultation. This will allow the practitioner enough time to assess your health.
4. Skype Consultation
Please add the practitioner’s skype name before your consultation and be ready to call her.
5. Chinese Medicine (optional)
If there is a need for Chinese herbal medicine, we will inform you of the price and send through the payment request. Once we receive the payment, we will arrange the Chinese herbal medicine. We will arrange to deliver the medicine through shipping, and the shipping fees will be included in the Chinese herbal medicine price.
For more details please visit – https://www.balancehealth.com.hk
Exercise can be both a blessing and a challenge
Everyone doing sports is – of course – more likely to have sport injuries compared to those who just sit back and relax. Those injuries are a common risk for athletes, often limiting peak performance or simply preventing the participation in a chosen sport. Around 1.35 million youths a year in the U.S. have serious sport injuries mostly affecting ankles, head and fingers. This certainly doesn’t mean that you should avoid exercise, because the health benefits far outweigh the costs in terms of sport injuries.
Balance Health pursues an integrative approach
Balance Health offers post-injury rehabilitation and quick recovery of sport injuries. We suggest an integrated treatment plan to effectively serve your regeneration. Our physiotherapists, osteopaths and certified practitioners work hand in hand to optimally satisfy your needs.
We support you with a combination of different therapies – from manual techniques to acupuncture – which are perfectly geared to each other. With the help of this unique approach we help you to recover as fast as possible, so that you can safely return to your sport and achieve your peak performance.
What causes Sports Injuries?
Exercise is good for you in terms of maintaining a good health. But sometimes accidents, or poor training practices can harm your body and cause sport injuries. Some people hurt themselves because they are not in a good shape and want to get started from zero to one hundred. In fact, there are plenty of reasons. But if you are aware of them, you can try to avoid them.
○ Fall, accident, trauma
○ Poor training practice: too heavy weight, poor warm-up or stretching
○ Overuse or repetitive movements
○ Improper equipment like shoes
○ Increase of activity level is too fast
○ Fatigue: your muscles need 48h rest to recover properly
For more details, Visit us – https://www.balancehealth.com.hk/sports-injuries/
Cupping is an ancient Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) practice that involves suctioning or vacuuming sections of the body. The cups are heated by swabbing rubbing alcohol on the bottom and then lighting the cup or by placing an inverted cup over a flame to aid in suctioning.
Glass cups are warmed with a flame creating a vacuum. Placed over a specific area the vacuum anchors the cup to the skin and pulls it upward. Drawing up the skin supports the opening of skin pores what helps to mobilize the blood flow in the body, balances the flow of qi and supports the removal of toxins from the body. It’s also a great way to relax after a particularly stressful time.
It has been reported to be useful with:
– Asthma
– Anxiety
– TMJ dysfunction
– Lung inflammation and congestion
– Pneumonia
– Poorly nourished skin and muscle tissue
– Diabetes, Toxicity, Stagnant lymph & edema
– Neuralgia, Rheumatism
– Chronic pain
– Insomnia, Migraine, Headaches, Parkinson’s Disease
– Poor circulation, high blood blood pressure
Specializations:
Fertility
Kid’s Health
Do you want a simple, effective way to quit smoking?
For a limited time, we are offering a special 3 session acupuncture treatment designed to help you quit smoking.

First of all, congratulations! You have already took an important step towards a healthier lifestyle just by looking for a treatment. There are many reasons why you should quit smoking. Not only does it harm yourself, but also harms your loved ones and other people around you.
It is never too late to quit this bad habit. With our help and treatments, we aim to help you quit smoking, improve your overall health significantly, and let you enjoy a healthier, longer life with your loved ones.
Smoking is a physical and psychological habit that is hard to eliminate. In the process of quitting, you will face difficult physical symptoms that are often coupled with psychological states. Withdrawal symptoms include irritability, fatigue, headache or flu-like aches.
Traditional Chinese medicine (TCM) aims to facilitate your journey of becoming healthier through different treatment methods. We can help you fight the urge and resist the triggers together.
How does acupuncture help you quit smoking?
Once the patient has set his/her mindset to quit smoking, the treatment can effectively facilitate the process. The treatment consists of acupuncture sessions along with herbal prescriptions if necessary that aim to decrease your cravings for nicotine without any side-effects. In addition to the mindset, the effectiveness of the treatment depends on the severeness of the addiction.
Acupuncture has only recently been regarded as a treatment method to quit smoking and can be regarded as a natural modern acupuncture treatment. Due to the fact it is a simple yet effective treatment, acupuncture has gained significant recognition as a favorable method to quit smoking in many countries over the world. According to the TCM perspective, you smoke to deal with the blockages inside your body that cause feelings of anxiety, tension, anger or grief.
Nicotine temporarily relieves you from these negative feelings and gives you short-term relaxation. However, cigarettes leave behind numerous side-effects and a pile of toxins in your body, such as tar and phlegm. Acupuncture provides a natural way to regulate your body flow and provides you similar feelings of relaxation and relief. Moreover, it helps your body to naturally remove residual tar and nicotine.
To summarize, acupuncture will help you with nicotine addiction, withdrawal symptoms, and remove residual tar and nicotine from your body.

What Happens When I Quit?
○In one year, your risk of heart disease, heart attack, and stroke is halved.
○You’ll have decreased risk for impotence and infertility.
○If you’re a one-pack-per-day smoker, you’ll probably save over $15,000.
What Are The Benefits of Acupuncture?
Acupuncture together with Traditional Chinese Medicine is a complete medical system that is capable of diagnosing and successfully treating a wide range of conditions including:
• Eye, Ear, Nose, Throat Disorders
• Circulatory Disorders
• Gastrointestinal Disorders
• Gynecological / Genitourinary Disorders
• Infertility
• Immune Disorders
• Addiction
• Emotional and Psychological Disorders
• Musculoskeletal and Neurological Disorders
• Respiratory Disorders
Acupuncture also Treats:
• Chemotherapy / Radiation Side Effects
• Diabetes
• Dermatological Disorders
• Weight Control
What Can I Do Additionally?
○ Frequent exercising: Qi Gong will teach you specific breathing exercises and movements to become more energetic and are capable of staying calm in stressful situations.
○ Avoid eating junk food, caffeine or alcoholic drinks that may trigger your cravings for cigarettes.
○ Avoid social situations where you are surrounded by smokers and cigarettes until you are clean of any desires.
Supporting Treatments?
Hypnotherapy can also be an extremely effective way of quitting smoking. It is effective because it targets the subconscious mind and deals with the root causes and compulsive behavior that leads to smoking such as stress and anxiety. One of the beautiful things about hypnosis is that change work is the new positive changes require no will power or strain on the patient’s behalf, they become aligned within ourselves, a natural part of us once the suggestions have been accepted on the subconscious level. This, of course, happens with the patient’s consent and permission, who at any time during the process is in control because he or she is more alert and his or her senses are heightened.
Infertility is a widespread problem all over the world. But what are the reasons suffering from infertility? Experts at the University of California at San Diego (2005) state that stress plays a role in the success of infertility treatments, including IVF. Women who were most stressed had ovulated 20% fewer eggs compared to women who were less stressed and were 20% less likely to achieve successful fertilisation.
Balance Health supports fertilization with a holistic approach that means that our treatments can be combined with Western medicine. With a natural, safe and non-invasive way we can fulfill your desire to have children. Considering holistic therapies and alternative approaches like acupuncture, shiatsu, Yuen method and awareness of nutrition will support your ovulation and bring your menstrual cycle in order. The treatments support your body and mind. Statistics show an increasing fertility rate after treating with a holistic approach. Additionally many researchers argue that acupuncture increases blood flow to the uterus and promotes production of ovulation- and fertility-regulating hormones, both of which should increase conception rates.
Chinese Medicine and Fertility
Chinese Medicine strengthens the body naturally by regulating hormones, stimulating the nervous system and easing pain and stress. Chinese medicine is a powerful tool before, during and after your fertility treatment. Clinical studies show that Chinese medicine can increase the success rate of IUI and IVF especially for women younger than 40 years provided that the oviduct is not clogged. It is also effective in improving the inner environment of the uterus and preparing the body for the implementation as confirmed by David Johnson (2006). Chinese medicine regulates the menstrual cycles as well as the ovulation. It supports the supply of ovaries and improves the quality of eggs.
Shiatsu and Fertility
Shiatsu is known as an alternative medicine for women suffering from infertility. The approach of Shiatsu is to help women getting awareness and consciousness about their own body. Treating infertility is quite stressful for the body – physically as well as emotionally.
Shiatsu is very supportive as an unique combination of touch, breathing and gentle movements. It balances the nervous system, improves circulation and organ functions. Shiatsu – also known as a Japanese finger pressure therapy – promotes relaxation and supports many ailments of pregnancy.
Yuen Method and Fertility
The Yuen Method explores the imbalances which are only the origin of pain and only the symptom of a blockade. Mainly stress and an imbalance of your mind-set will be treated with the Yuen Method. This complementary profound health technique can greatly increase your fertility and wish for pregnancy.
Nutrition and Fertility
The American Pregnancy Association suggests taking three months to a year for nutrition changes. Food or chemicals damage our hormones or mimic our hormones in the body causing us to be dominant in certain hormones, which causes imbalance. When optimizing our nutritional intake we not only nourish our cells with the best possible nutrients that are needed for our cells to function properly and efficiently, we also optimize our chances of conception and create a healthy embryo and pregnancy. Experience how nutrition affects your infertility. The impacts are immense on: PCOS, blood sugar imbalance (high blood sugar or blood insulin), infertility, menopause and PMS.

Our Body’s Chemical Messengers
“Hormones work together like an ensemble in an orchestra. If each essential part works properly, then the result will be a beautiful and harmonious symphony. But even if one single part of the orchestra plays out of tune the whole melody will be out of balance.
Hormones are your body’s chemical messengers. Each of them has its own responsibility for fulfilling specific functions. Hormones are secreted from the endocrine glands in the body and travel in your bloodstream to organs and tissues. As they are very powerful, too much or too little of a certain hormone can cause big changes in your whole body.
○ Maintenance of body temperature and thirst
○ Growth and development
○ Metabolism – how your body gets energy from
○ The foods you eat
○ Sexual function and drive
○ Reproduction
○ Cognitive function and mood
Functional Medicine & Holistic Nutrition
Functional medicine is about getting to the root cause of a disease or dysfunction, by identifying the triggers, imbalances, pathogenic influences and toxicities. It combines the consultative expertise together with the appropriate diagnostic procedures, like laboratory tests, to help the patient regain balance, wellness and vitality. Diet, detoxication and supplementation are the key tools to correct any imbalance.
How does a consultation at Balance Health look like?
The treatment with our functional medicine practitioner and holistic
nutritionist Miles Price is built up in three evaluation steps:
1. Conducting a thorough health, family history, lifestyle
and diet evaluation
2. Evaluating blood tests and laboratory results
3. Prescribing specific dietary modifications, with supplemental detoxification
support if needed
The benefits of this holistic approach combined with clinical support result in more energy, vitality, and elimination of symptoms.
Homeopathy dates back about 200 years ago when it was first invented
in Germany. It is a system of traditional medicine which addresses the whole
person: the physical, the mental and the emotional. It treats each patient
individually with highly diluted natural substances with the aim of triggering
the body’s natural self-healing abilities. Homeopathy not only restores the
balance of your prevailing health condition, but also heals the underlying
mental or emotional toll you might be suffering from.
A double-blinded, placebo-controlled study from the University of Glasgow, Europe’s largest medical school, showed that over 80 percent of the 24 asthma patients improved significantly after they were given homeopathic remedies.
How does a homeopathy consultation at Balance Health look
like?
The first treatment with our homeopath Martin Mailaender is
built up as follows:
What causes Hormonal Imbalance ?
Your body needs certain building blocks, made up of good fats and cholesterol,
for the production of hormones. A lack of these important dietary factors can
trigger hormonal imbalances, simply because the body doesn’t have enough of the
right components to produce them. Many of us are unaware that the diet we eat
can highly impact the effectiveness of our hormones. Some foods or chemicals
even damage or mimic our hormones causing us to be lacking or to be dominant in
certain hormones which causes imbalance. Furthermore, our increasing exposure
to stress, worsening nutrition, lack of proper sleep and physical exercise
result in declining levels of well functioning hormones in our bodies. Except
of lifestyle factors there are other causes which can throw off our body’s
natural chemistry like menopause, pregnancy, menstrual cycle or the
contraceptive pill.
How can you treat Hormonal Imbalances?
During the past years hormone replacement therapy (HRT) has become a highly
debated topic. Hormone deficiency is usually treated with synthetics and is highly
effective in relieving some of the mentioned symptoms. But a major study in
2002 by the Women’s Health
Initiative proved that the risks of HRT exceed the benefits for
certain groups of women. Consequently, women are increasingly looking for
natural alternatives.

We have a Chinese saying, “Work with Sunrise and Rest with Sunset.” Human activities should follow the sun. Rest and sleep are a very natural state of physiology. From TCM’s perspective, day is yang and night is yin which guide our body’s activities and rest. Hence, waking up is yang and sleep is yin. Insomnia can mean not getting enough sleep, not spending enough time in deep sleep, having trouble getting to sleep, or waking up and not being able to fall back to sleep. Having too many dreams during sleep is another symptom of insomnia according to TCM, as it affects the quality of sleep. Insomnia can become quite problematic if one cannot sleep well the whole night through for a long period of time, affecting work, school, learning, life and health.
Falling asleep happens when the yang energy (which drives the external activities) turns into yin energy (which leads all internal organs to rest and rejuvenate). If the internal organs are not in balance (becoming weak or overly taxed), the yang energy will not be able to process and change to yin energy, leading to insomnia.
There are many factors that cause insomnia. From TCM’s perspective, eating, drinking, emotion, stress, worry, illness, and aging can all affect the balance of yin and yang in the system and cause anxiety and restlessness. Thyroid issues and menopause will affect the sleep as well.
From TCM’S perspective, insomnia can cause multiple organs to have problems, mainly the heart and liver, as well as the spleen, kidneys and gallbladder.
Liver getting stagnated and turning into excess yang energy; Deficiency of Heart with Spleen both getting weak; Deficiency of Heart with Gallbladder; Yin weak and Yang excess.
TCM practitioners will first find out the root of a problem in order to treat the root. Hence the patient needs to be aware their lifestyle and adjust gradually, at the same time, taking Chinese herbs to support the system. From TCM’s perspective, the heart controls the mind and the emotions. The main goal is to regulate the heart and calm the mind and emotions by using herbs, acupuncture and massage therapies.
Lotus Seed and Lily Soup
Can help with: Neurasthenia, Palpitation, Insomnia, Recovery after sickness
Lotus seed tastes sweet and sour. It is neutral and nourishes the heart while strengthen the kidneys and spleen. Lily tastes sweet and slightly bitter. It is neutral and goes to heart and lung meridians. It moisturizes the lungs and stops coughing, nourishes yin energy and gets rid of heat, clears the heart and calms the mind.
Ingredients & Instructions: 10g Dried lotus seed, 15g Dried lily, boil them in a pot with 500ml water, turn off the heat and leave with lid closed for 15 to 20 minutes.
Licorice, Wheat & Red Date Soup
Can help with: Hysteria, Neurasthenia, Insomnia and Night sweats
This recipe can nourish the heart, calm the mind, and strengthen the spleen and stomach.
Ingredients & Instructions: Cook 10g licorice, 30g wheat, and 5 dates with 2 bowls of water until it becomes 1 bowl of liquid.
Disperse Stagnated Liver and Elevate Depression Tea
Can help with: People with stagnated liver qi
Ingredients & Instructions: 5 pieces of Rose & 3g Albizia flower. Steep them in hot water for 5 minutes before drinking.
Prunella Vulgaris with Pork Meat Soup
Can help with: People with stagnated liver qi
Ingredients & Instructions: 15g Prunella vulgaris, 2 pieces Jujube dates, & 100g Pork meat; boil them in a pot with 500ml water and turn off the heat with lid closed for 15 to 20 minutes.
Develop a routine for getting up and going to bed. Create a good environment to support sleep in the bedroom. Do some outdoor activities or exercises during the day.
Avoid and drink less coffee and tea especially for people suffering with insomnia already. Tea and coffee will make the body feel a little tense and build up yang energy at night, keeping the body awake.
People with sleeping problem are recommended to do cardio exercises during the day to help with sleep at night. However, avoid intense exercises after sunset as it will lead to body tension and affect sleep.
Don’t go to bed with an empty or full stomach, and especially avoid eating oily and heavy foods before going to bed.
It’s time to Destress!
Balance Health offers an integrated and holistic three-step solution to destress your life, body and mind.
Take time out and slow down! This outstanding stress-away package empowers you to manage stress successfully and makes you master of your body and mind.
Relaxing hands-on treatments accompany your journey to a new stress-free you and operate as balm for your rushed soul.

What happens when you are exposed to long-term stress?
Today we activate this primary instinct although we don’t face a life threatening situation and although we can neither run nor fight. Instead we face modern day saber-tooth tiger – for example our demanding boss – raging in a meeting and all we have to do (against our nature) is to “control ourselves” and to “deal with it”. This kind of unresolved emotional conflicts and suppressed negative emotions cause severe levels of stress. As a result, our body’s natural “fight or flight” response may be stuck in a continuous on position. If you don’t learn to turn it off , stress can have serious consequences for your health.
The longer the ongoing stress lasts, the worse it turns out to be for your body and mind. Following symptoms can occur:
○ Decreasing energy levels and constant feeling of fatigue
○ Unable to concentrate
○ Easily irritable for no good reason
○ Headache or migraine
○ IBS
○ Chronic cold or inflammation
○ Insomnia
○ High blood pressure
According to APA’s 2012 Stress in America survey, stress keeps more than 40 percent of adults lying awake at night, what even increases the symptoms during daytime as the body has no time to recover. According to a study conducted by the Oregon State University, individuals who tend to live a more stressful life have a 50% higher chance of dying. Stress may also cause sequelae from overeating, extensive smoking, alcohol abuse or other harmful habits people develop to cope with stress. When it becomes as severe as stress starts interfering with your ability to live a normal life for an extended period, stress itself can become life threatening, as the number of raising people affected by burnout or the alarming numbers of Karoshi victims demonstrate.
What is the ‘fight or flight’ response?
From an evolutionary perspective our inherent “fight or flight” response was extremely valuable for the survival of the human being. When we had to run from our perceived threat, a sequence of firing nerve cells and chemical release prepared our bodies for either running or fighting. These patterns caused our body to undergo a series of considerable changes:
○ Increased stress hormone levels
○ Accelerated heartbeat & increased respiratory rate
○ Increased muscle tension
○ Deteriorated digestion
○ Intensified awareness
○ Shut down of the immune system
Do It Yourself – How can I reduce stress on my own?
The American Psychological Association recommends:
○ Identify what’s causing stress
○ Build strong relationships
○ Walk away when you are angry
○ Rest your mind
○ Get help
Get help for example with the De-Stress Package from Balance Health. Take your time to leave your cares behind.

Firstly, having meaning or purpose in life that gives the person structure, something to look forward to and the possibility of leaving a legacy,
The second is friendship and support system that entails family and strong connections,
Lastly, having an intimate relationship.
Of all of these above the last one is nice to have but not the most important. An intimate relationship will not “complete you”- unless you are in a movie with Tom Cruise.
In my years of psychodynamic coaching, conversations move into the areas personal relationship and during our sessions, we have deep conversations around intimate relationships or lack of them. Understandably, the game has changed a few decades ago meeting romantic partners were easier than it is now. As Asians one were likely to be hitched by a family member; be it, parents or extended family. However, now with changing times, packed calendars, and demanding careers; the responsibility of finding a right partner lies on the person.
Here are a few tips on finding a partner when you are a busy executive, these are most commonly repeated during our sessions. If you are looking for someone try these out, you can always reach out to me if you’d like to know more.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT PARTNER
Make sure that the person you choose is supportive of your higher calling. If you are ambitious and working 16 hour days, you’d start resenting a partner who is demanding of your time and keeps you from pursuing your purpose. If you’re interested in quitting your corporate job and want to move into entrepreneurship understand how important will your stable paycheque be for the relationship. Remember you’d need to return the favour as well and understand what lights up your partner.
DON’T BE TOO DIRECT
It is not important to always go for ‘the kill’- if you’re desperate for a ring just buy yourself one. Be a friend first let the other person lower their guard around you. You shut off people when you come across as needy or direct. Don’t answer every call or text and always be available- have a life of your own but when you are together put on your charm and be present. Let them feel seen and acknowledged.
BE INTRIGUING
Don’t put all your cards on the table! There is no use being an open book- every page of you is important – Let time uncover aspects of yourself. There are so many parts of you the beauty, the intellectual side, the spiritual side, the innocence, street smarts all of them can unravel slowly.
HAVE YOUR OWN FRIENDS
People are attracted to those who have their own life and are desired company for others. It should be a matter of privilege to have your attention. In short, popular people are more attractive.
DON’T TRY TO LOOK PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE ALL THE TIME
People are insecure about their body image and self-worth, if you are perfect all the time you make them aware of their weakness. Also, your career wear is not equal your date wear (don’t get mixed up on that one).
SHOW YOUR SPIRITUAL SIDE
Make the other person comfortable and less self conscious-but never lazy. People should be comfortable around you but never slothful, they should put in an effort as well because you are worth it.